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Dave Bamford

Dave Bamford


Phone

 (780) 413-0061

 for Appointments


Positive Changes Counselling

Voice of the Martyrs
Welcome to Positive Changes Counselling, www.FathersHeart.ca
This website is designed to present David Bamford's approaches with clients seeking Christian Counselling. For those seeking sensitive professional counselling without any spiritual component or for business clients, go to: www.PositiveChangesNow.ca  

Come experience more of the Father's heart for you: growth, healing, maturity and life-giving relationships. His heart is that we are equipped to thrive!

Upcoming Events: 

-Immanuel Emotional Healing: June 8, 9 Edmonton
See menu above: Immanuel > Training 
 Video: http://www.immanuelapproach.com/testimonies.html# 
 Please be patient. 1-2 minute for video to load

-Thrive-Restarting see menu above
    12 Monday evenings, starting again Sept., 2012, that bring new hope for:
    inadequate joy, depression, anxiety,  addictions, emotional eating, spiritual dryness, 
    weak relationships, attachment wounds, type A & B trauma (neglect & abuse).  
     
-Thrive 19 Skills Training: May 27-31, 2013, St. Albert, AB. 
  Build joy capacity and increase intimacy with God at this premiere 
  relational brain-skill training. The Life Model can be applied to all areas 
  of your life, marriage, and family.  The total package involves an at-home course 
  consisting of reading and DVD lectures, plus a week of hands on training.  
  See www.thrivetoday.org/thrivetracks.html#Anchor-54076

Counselling: My Commitment to Clients

(1) I am very protective of each person's dignity and self-esteem. It is vitally important to me that you always feel respected. We have all made lots of mistakes.  However, I want all counselling to reflect the grace of the God of second chances.

(2) I am very sensitive to the differences between men and women when it comes to counselling. Frequently, a man's sense of personal privacy and other factors, leads us to be less than comfortable with the idea of counselling. (In fact, many of us men would prefer a root canal to seeing a “shrink“.) I have spent years reassuring men that this discomfort is normal, that men and their God-given strengths will be recognized and respected and providing the support that makes counselling both comfortable and productive.

(3) I work to create an atmosphere of emotional safety, which goes beyond blaming. This safe environment promotes honesty and breakthroughs. Thus, no one needs to be cheated out of his/her relational and personal dreams. As trust builds, I also hold up a mirror of reality which promotes increased self-awareness. Then each can see his/her areas which need growth (or are actually destructive), is supported to take responsibility for the needed changes and provided with the skills and insights which empower people to achieve these changes.  

(4) I want everyone to feel comfortable with the different counselling approaches being used. From  years of experience, I usually have a number of approaches that work for any need. I urge clients to speak up so that we find the approach that works best for you!

(5) Counselling sessions are completely confidential. No information will be released about you without your written consent. Exceptions are child abuse, which by law must be reported. If you are believed to be a danger to yourself or someone else, others may need to be notified. Finally, courts may subpoena counselling records.
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Past Events: left up to give an idea of future possibilities
 

Jesus and Your Mental Health: In and Out of Christian Counselling
September 16, 17, 2011
Friday 4:00 PM to 9:00 PM, Saturday 9:00 AM to 12:00 PM
Presenter: James G Friesen
Psychologist, Author, Speaker
www.JamesGFriesen.com
 
Seminar Fees:
Early bird, $75; Spouse: $65 
Due to donations, to offset costs, everyone gets the early bird rate regardless of date.
If paying at the door, email name, phones to: Dave Bamford,
positivechangesnow@shaw.ca
For scholarships, 
contact: 
Pastor Ria Van Zanten 780 986-4257 
Dates & Times:
Friday, Sept. 16th 4:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Saturday, Sept. 17th 9:00 am -12:00pm
Friday supper: 6-6:45 PM not included
Optional: Where do we go from here? For those who wish, Dave Bamford
will introduce "Restarting" & "Immanuel" via a 45 miniute DVD at 12:30 PM after the formal end of the seminar.
You may want to bring a snack or lunch. At the seminar we will offer
 ideas for people‟s on-going healing journey: read-ing, courses, and other local resources. For more info: Dave Bamford, 780 413-0061,
positivechangesnow@shaw.ca www.FathersHeart.ca
Book Table: Dr. Friesen’s books & many other great resources. Cash, cheque only please!
Donations: The fees above will not cover expenses.
If you wish to donate and get a receipt, make cheques to JSCM & mail to: Josephs Storehouse, 21530 103 Avenue NW, Edmonton, AB, T5S 2C4
Located at:
Josephs Storehouse
21530 103 Avenue
Edmonton, AB
www.jscm.ab.ca
Directions:  Google "Josephs Storehouse" and see map.
There is a lot of construction in the west end and some closures
 e.g. Stony Plain Road access from Anthony Henday. 
Leave early.
Emotional Health & Trauma Recovery Seminar
This seminar is for everyone:
- all who want more emotional health
-all who want to be sensitized and equipped to walk with others into belonging and healing
-the traumatised who are ready to learn more
about recovery and experience more healing
-church leaders who want to see their churches
become even safer and more effective healing communities
-counsellors who want growth in helping with severe trauma 
Trauma-who me?
When we think of emotional healing, our minds usually go to the wounds that result from emotional, physical, sexual abuse and war trauma. Type B trauma is about the Bad things that happened. Thus we may dismiss the need for healing, thinking, “Nothing like this hap-pened to me.”
Type A trauma involves the Absence of things we needed and didn’t get enough of. Infants and chil-dren need secure attachment to Mom and Dad, in-volving love, nurture, anticipation of their physical and emotional needs and lots of joy-building and quiet together moments. As parents incarnate God‟s love, children are prepared for secure attachment to God. Ironically, wounds caused by what the child needed and missed are often the hardest to heal!
Unhealed Type A & B trauma, rob us of joy-filled lives, marriages and families. Unhealed trauma commonly underlies addictions.
 
 Dr. Friesen has lead seminars throughout the USA and has been a featured speaker at conferences in Canada, South Africa, Australia and Beijing, China. He has worked intensively with 130 severely dissociative clients, of whom approximately 80 survived SRA (Satanic Ritual Abuse).

Audiences often include a mix of people, so comments are tailored to address listeners at all stages of experience. Dr. Friesen is cur-rently working on a new book, Jesus and Your Mental Health, focusing on what is Christian about counselling, with a target completion date of August. Although it won‟t be released until later, Dr. Friesen will bring insights at the Edmonton semi-nar.
 
www.JamesGFriesen.com
For indicators of possible Dissociative Identity Disorder, scroll down the right column to: Click here for “Diagnostic Indicators for MPD”
For indicators of possible Satanic Ritual Abuse, scroll to: Click here for “Diagnostic Indicators for SRA”

God’s Heart for Healing Community:
God is seeking to reveal His Father heart for all of us, with our emotional wounds. This includes the severely traumatized. He also wants us to treat the traumatized, the depressed, the anxious with dignity, sensitivity and value. We are ministering to Jesus when we enlarge our hearts to embrace wounded fellow-strugglers. “The King will reply, „Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.‟ (Matthew 25: 40)
 
There is so much to give thanks for in our churches and ministries. But God has more for us. We need his healing and transformation individually and corporately. As we cooperate with God, we no longer live out of our code-pendent needs. We no longer create dependent relation-ships. We no longer see the wounded, depressed and anx-ious as “projects,” or even people for us to “minister to.” We are all fellow travelers on a healing journey. We are all pursuing Jesus, the Healer. We build healthy commu-nity, where there is emotional safety and belonging. We create life-giving relationships. Thus, we are supported to grow into all that God has uniquely destined for each of us. And this healing community more faithfully reflects his plan for his Bride.
 
Some of James Friesen’s Books Uncovering the Mystery of MPD
A Far Better Life: Spiritual & Psychological In-sights from Jesus‟ Teaching
The Life Model: Living From The Heart Jesus Gave Us (translated into seven languages)
 
Getting Started: (optional)
If you wish to do some reading, The Life Model:
Living From The Heart Jesus Gave Us, is a good place to begin. It is short (120 pages), written in everyday lan-guage and deals with the wounds everybody has. It is also an introduction to the Thrive healing resources. (www.LifeModel.org) Not available in stores, it is available on-line and from Dave Bamford. www.FathersHeart.ca
 
Registration
Registrations, with cheques, payable to The Derrick, can be mailed to the address below.
Please detach & mail registration to:
Pastor Ria Van Zanten
4301-34 Ave, Leduc, AB, T9E 6B3
780 986-4257
Cash may be dropped off at Leduc address

In Edmonton, cash/cheques may be dropped
off at: Positive Changes Counselling
(New Start Counselling on the door) #213, 1209-97 St
Edmonton, AB T5E 4C2, 780 413-0061
Directions: www.FathersHeart.ca
(scroll to bottom of page)

Name: ______________________
Address: _____________________
Email: ______________________
Phone: ___________ Cell: ___________
We hope to email further info to registrants by September 12, 2011
 
 
 
 
 
 

THRIVE Marriage Retreat Oct. 1, 2, 2010 Edmonton

 
 This has been left up to give an idea of how a retreat might run in your city in the future.
 

“I’m falling in love with my husband all over again.” Anna Hill, Edmonton pastor

“This is the most dynamic training I have ever experienced or heard of. It is helping me to get past blind spots and move into life-giving changes.”
Dave Bamford, Edmonton marriage counsellor

Speaker/Facilitators: Chris and Jen Coursey lead and design the THRIVE conference and training program that uses Life Model principles to promote healing, maturity, recovery and joy in individuals, families, communities and churches. Chris is an ordained minister, a pastoral counselor, published author and international speaker while Jen is a teacher, conference facilitator, author and synchronized dance instructor.

In one weekend you experience:

  • Brain-based skill training for a stable identity and marriage
  • Wound healing through Immanuel, the presence of Jesus
  • Couple bond building through joy and peace
  • Interaction to recognize attachment and relational patterns that rob your joy
  • Conflict resolution through mutual mind practice
  • Teaching on the neurochemistry of bonding and more!
     


When: Friday, Oct. 1, 1:00-6:00 PM. Retreat begins with
check-in at 12:30pm.
Save Friday evening for your personal date night! Supper is your responsibility.

Sat. Oct. 2, 9:00 AM to 5:00 PM. Lunch is provided & included in cost.

 

Where: First Church of God, 9224 82 Street, Edmonton, AB


Cost: Early bird, received by Sept.10, $250.00; after Sept. 10, $290.00
Registration: Full payment must be made before your registration is complete.

Please make all cheques or money orders to THRIVE Canada

Payments may be made by mailing cheques & money orders to:

THRIVE Canada, c/o Recovery to Joy Ministeries,

7704 188 Street, Edmonton, AB, T5T 5J4

 

Questions: Contact Anna Hill 780 481-0196,  joymin@telus.net

 

Final Registration Deadline: Sept. 24, 2010

Optional prereading:  For a richer experience, read The Life Model: Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You, (only 120 pages) This is not sold in stores. May be purchased from Dave Bamford.

 To learn more about THRIVE: www.thrivetoday.org
& see
“Marriage Retreats” in left menu

 

Except in the case of an Act of God, all payments will be refunded after Sept. / 2010 in case of cancellation.

 

                                                                 

 




 

 
 
 
 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

 

                       

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Contact: Dave Bamford --- Phone: (780) 413-0061 --- Email: PositiveChangesNow@shaw.ca
New office (Down the hall from the previous office. It has "New Start Counselling" on the door to the waiting room):  
Suite 213
, 12907-97 Street, Edmonton, T5E 4C2
Directions: My building is a 2 story  building, attached to a 1 story Chinese restaurant, on the east side of 97 St., approximately 5 blocks north of the Yellowhead. There is another counselling practice on the ground floor of my building run by friends. For my office, come upstairs to #213. Come into the waiting room. Please knock twice on my door, on the far left, so I know you have arrived.