The Iceberg of Conflict

One way of picturing the hidden layers and complexities of conflict is through the metaphor of the iceberg, as depicted in the following chart. You may want to identify additional layers besides the ones we cite, to reveal what is below the surface for you.

Awareness of Interconnection

Exploring Your Iceberg

Each level of the iceberg represents something that does not apppear on the surface, yet adds weight and immobility to our arguments when we are in conflict.  ( Resolving Conflict at Work, Cloke & Goldsmith)